1This is a trustworthy saying: “If someone aspires to be a church leader,3:1 Or an overseer, or a bishop; also in 3:2, 6. he desires an honorable position.”

2So a church leader must be a man whose life is above reproach. He must be faithful to his wife.3:2 Or must have only one wife, or must be married only once; Greek reads must be the husband of one wife; also in 3:12. He must exercise self-control, live wisely, and have a good reputation. He must enjoy having guests in his home, and he must be able to teach.

3He must not be a heavy drinker3:3 Greek must not drink too much wine; similarly in 3:8. or be violent. He must be gentle, not quarrelsome, and not love money.

4He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him.

5For if a man cannot manage his own household, how can he take care of God’s church?

14I am writing these things to you now, even though I hope to be with you soon,

15so that if I am delayed, you will know how people must conduct themselves in the household of God. This is the church of the living God, which is the pillar and foundation of the truth.